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Monday, February 8, 2010

.: Do We nEeD To GeT MaRried??? :.

of course we need to get married n... we want to get married..
n the reasons are..find it urself!!! looserrrrrr

suddenly the word "MARRIED" just playing around my head
becoz i just read my fren's blog at http://hanyabukansesiapa.blogspot.com/ tittled "perkahwinan"...huh.this word is really2 scared me
she wrote about how sad she is when her best fren want to get married n the date is just around the corner
i just can feel how sad she is..bcoz i used to be in the same condition..but not really..exactly the same la..
n i admit...i really cried like a river when i heard the news...hu2..really2 sedih ooooo..feels like someone try to snatch him/her from u..


ooopppsss mcm dh out of topic..
ok...lets move on..lets get back to the point..

---> last night i had a dinner with my frens..tetbe rasa lapa thp gaban la pulak..n really dun feel like nk masak.malasssssss
while having the dinner n plus chit chat about watever we want to talk about..
we watched news on tv3. n suddenly i really2 shocked about the tittle..
"majlis nikah digantikan dgn majlis tahlil"...sumthing like that la
at first i thought either the bride or the groom meninggal...dlm hati dh berkata2 dh..kesian btol.how sad hu2
sanggup 2 tggu pasal berita 2 even my food dh hbs..
tggu punye tggu rpe2nye...the groom has postponed the akad nikah reception..bkn ad sesape mati pun..i dun really feels like he wanted to postpone the wedding..the truth is he wanted to cancel the wedding...huh!!! such a liar...dan bertmbah truk lagi when he just sent sms to postpone the wedding...


hey!!! who do u think u r ha..sesuka ati ko je nk tagguh2 cm2.otak xde ke..huh..tetbe lak ak jd hangin..ye la,why dun u try to put urself in her shoes..time 2 baru ko tau langit 2 tggi ke rendah.sesuka ati je nk main2kan hidup org...

n bcoz of the news..suddenly i think..
"what will i do if dis disaster really happen to me???"...
hu2..i just can't imagine that...n mayB ak akan berdendam dgn org 2 sampai mati.."KILL KILL DIE DIE"

n according to the news..this case akan di bawa ke muka pengadilan..ha..padan mke ko.."see u in court bebeh" saman dia smpai bankrupt

dan ble difkir2kan balik..ini la asam garam kehidupan..dn x sume nasib manusia 2 sama..
ad yg baik..n ada x tak..kte merancang tp tuhan yg menentukan...tp kalo bol
e,fkir2kan la dlu setiap tindakan yg akan di buat samada tindakan kte 2 bole berikan impak yg buruk kepada org lain atau tidak..berdosa kte kalo sengaja memainkan perasaan dan hidup org lain..

**ak tringt kt kakak tmpat ak kje dlu..kes dia cmni gak la.brg2 sume dh siap.last2 pengantin llki batalkan perkahwinan...hancurnye hati.luluh...time ni nk manangis air mata darah sekalipun x gne dh.coz keputusan mgg kt tgn llki 2..kalo dia xnk xkn nk dipaksa pulak (xtau la kakak 2 dh kwen ke lom sekrg.coz time ak benti kje dlu dia lom kwen lagi..umur pun dh 30 sumthing time 2)

**masa ak tgh tulis blog ni..tetbe lak lagu tenda biru bermain2 kt playlist ak..mmg cantek la.dis song came just on the right time..




so..do we really need to get maried???

fkir2 dn renung2kan la sbb masing2 pun dh besar..boleh fkir yg mn +ve & -ve...
x semestinye yg +ve tu selama2nye +ve,dan yg -ve tu selama2nye -ve..ad hikmah disebalik setiap ketentuan-Nya


p/s:what goes around comes around


8 comments:

Hardy Boy said...

Aku pun rase geram jugak bila tgk berita tu. Sukati je postpone majlis tu, kesian jugak tgk parent perempuan tu. Kalau aku la jadi bapa perempuan tu, aku suruh cancel je kawin ngn laki tu, nampak sangat tak bertanggungjawab & belum cukup matang untuk kawin, takkan la aku nak gadai masa depan anak aku kat lelaki jenis gitu. Ramai lagi lelaki yang jenis sesuai dijadikan suami diluar sana. Kalau sebelum kawin dah macam tu, cube bayangkan ape jadi lepas kawin nanti..huhuhu. Just pengajaran untuk bakal-bakal pengantin diluar sana. Ape yang kita lakukan kepada orang lain, maybe ade balasannye... Jika duit hantaran tak cukup sekali pun, just proceed je yang mampu diberikan takpun discuss dulu ngn parent sebelah perempuan. Setiap masalah mesti ade jalan penyelesaiannya. Banyakkan berusaha, berdoa dan bertawakkal...

jajaharissa said...

ko pun bakal pengantin gak hadi..
so..jgn wt cmni ye.nnt kne smbar petir

b u k a n s e s i a p a said...

wakaka..ak pecaye r u can kill him. ko kn ex-Yakuza MasterJa =)

jajaharissa said...

wahahahaha...bkn ex-yakuza eh.i'm still yakuza tau

Hardy Boy said...

Jaja : InsyaAllah tak wat gitu..hahaha

jajaharissa said...

bagus!!!

b u k a n s e s i a p a said...

aiyak..still yakuza? Once u r Yakuza..forever u'll b yakuza..wakaka

jajaharissa said...

of coz i will be yakuza 4eva he2..scary huh